Not talking doesn't help. I have seen people around me who have kept this thing within them. For them, if some people are not worth of being a part of their lives, they are not worth of talking at all. So all they do, is ignore the person altogether and gradually they voluntarily go away from their lives, or stop interacting with them. This does not help, and doesn't do good to either of them. Only a human being is useful to another, and neglecting someone and thus driving him/her away once and for all closes a door to our lives. And once that door is closed, it is not going to open. What is worse, this process is not an exception. Rather, it gives birth to a life long process which tells you to ignore every person whom you think is not necessary to your life. This, has both good and bad sides. One, you are blocking all those unwanted persons, who most likely would've wasted a good amount of time of your life and two, you are avoiding all those persons who had an honest intention of being a part of your life and help you in a way you would've never thought of before. Thus the walls we build around us, restrict us from getting the real experiences of life. It prevents us to get to know people, the real way. So go on, get out, there are amazing people out there, and there are numerous opportunities of life waiting for you. The more you hesitate, greater are the chances that you lose out on the valuable opportunities of life.
-16th Nov '11
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